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Hurry Up and Wait

“Those who expect to reap the blessings of freedom must undergo the fatigue of supporting it.”

– Thomas Paine

Freedom from a mortgage and a job might not be what Paine had in mind, but the spirit of his statement fits!  First things first, we are sorry for our silence this week.  Who would have thought that being home would be more hectic than being on the road?!  We received an offer on our house the day we returned home from our trip, and we’ve spent the past week setting the wheels in motion to move into a much funkier and more economical river-view apartment that better suits our lifestyle.  So we spent most of our time this week organizing and resolving the things within our control, and now we wait for the rest of the pieces to fall into place.

Unfortunately, we’re not very good at a waiting, even after a lifetime of practice.  When you’re a kid, it’s waiting for your birthday or waiting for Christmas or waiting for your friend to come over.  Then it’s waiting to get your license, waiting to go to college, waiting to graduate.  Once you start working, it’s waiting for the weekend, waiting for vacation, waiting for the next job or promotion.  Waiting can take over your life.  This realization brings to mind the quote most often attributed to John Lennon (though said by others before him): “Life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans.”

There is some truth in that statement, but is it all just waiting?  What about preparation and effort to ready oneself for what’s next?  Is preparation the same as waiting?  The answer, of course, is no.  Preparation involves taking an active role in the future and showing initiative, while waiting implies a being passive while other things occur around you.  We’ve arrived at this juncture in our lives through preparation.  We’ve done our best—sometimes failing and sometimes succeeding—to control the things we could and to mitigate risk from circumstances outside of our control.

And now, we wait.  Better yet, we wait and we live our lives!  This is a time to be active.  To put worries to the side and run races, write poems, visit friends and family, and enjoy each other’s company (and of course, update our blog!).  And as we wait for items outside of our control to be resolved, we can take comfort in the fact that we have prepared the best we could.

We stumbled across the quote below from a great adventurer and wanted to share it as an encouraging piece of wisdom that sums up the impact of preparation and initiative:

“Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”

William Hutchinson Murray, The Scottish Himalayan Expedition (1951)


Staying Sane on the Road: Episode 1

This sign confused us. We took a right. We were wrong.

Since leaving New Hampshire two weeks ago, we’ve kept a small notebook in the car with pieces of information about our trip: gas purchases, mileage, expenses, lists of things to bring on the next trip, strange signs seen along the roadside, vanity plates…the list goes on.

The last page in our mini road journal includes a list of states and provinces labeled “The License Plate Game.”  The License Plate Game consists of writing down all unique states and provinces from license plates we see on the trip.  The goal is to get all 50 states and Washington, D.C. before we get home; provinces are just a bonus.  It’s not a competitive game as much as it is a team effort to complete the list, in part because it helps stave off boredom on the road and in part because it forces us to be aware of the little details around us.  We found two of the tough stragglers (Alaska and Montana) parked on side streets as we wandered around Key West yesterday.

In the 13 states we traveled through to get to Key West (NH, MA, CT, NY, NJ, PA, MD, WV, VA, TN, NC, GA, and FL), we recorded 44 different states plus Washington, D.C. and three provinces.

As we prepare to start the 30-hour, ~1,700 mile trip from Sugarloaf Key to New Hampshire, we have just six states left: HI, WY, ID, NM, UT, and ND.

We’ll be on the lookout for these last few states as we head back to the Northeast over the next three days.  If we don’t see them on this trip, we’ll just have to continue the quest when we drive out west later this summer!

P.S. In case you’ve wondered what it’s like to drive hundreds of miles through southern Georgia or northern Florida, take a peek at this…and then rewind and watch it 600 more times.